Our experience with different situations is what we make of it. We can make it great and pleasurable, or miserable denpending on what we choose. For example, in one room people could be fighting each other about silly things. And in another room, people could be having a good conversation. The ones in the first room should take a step back and ask themselves, is it worth it? And should remember that there are more important things going on. The ones in the second room make the environment more pleasurable because of their light personalities and positive behavior toward each other. Also, people in both rooms should remember that if an issue arises that needs to be worked out, they shouldn't blow it out of proportion but work it out calmly.
Side note; From what I saw on Mon. night on a couple sites, I found that some bloggers take things too seriously and start harrassing other bloggers. They should realize this is just a virtual world and there are more important things out there.