tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-145809712024-03-23T11:11:16.808-07:00A bit of Light קצת אורA frum girl on the westcoast, and writing what's on my mind.
Please check out my older post as well with different topics, thankssmbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comBlogger408125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-72827420693902773112015-10-15T03:13:00.001-07:002018-06-19T21:18:39.181-07:00Helping<span style="font-size: large;">7 ways that we can help Israel. We can each make a difference when we stand together and with Hashem</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Have a great year everyone </span><br />
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-smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-37864492776418134792012-08-21T23:19:00.001-07:002012-08-21T23:26:51.869-07:00Shana tovah<span style="background-color: #f6f6f6; color: #555555; font-family: arial, sans-serif;">Well, the high holidays are approaching and we are in that time where we each need to find what we need to improve on. One of the things we can do is be careful with what we say, whether it's Loshon hara, (gossip) or some other hurtful words. Words have a bigger impact than we know, therefore we should learn and make an effort to be careful, thereby keeping relationships strong plus receiving blessing from the mitzvah of guarding our tongue. Here's a good site where we can learn 'A lesson a day' </span><a class="yt-uix-redirect-link" dir="ltr" href="http://chofetzchaim.shemayisrael.com/lesson/lesson2.htm" rel="nofollow" style="background-color: #f6f6f6; border: 0px; color: #438bc5; cursor: pointer; font-family: arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank" title="http://chofetzchaim.shemayisrael.com/lesson/lesson2.htm">http://chofetzchaim.shemayisrael.com/lesson/lesson2.htm</a>
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Have a shanah tovah, happy new year everyonesmbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-56667850567436105752012-02-08T23:05:00.000-08:002012-02-08T23:26:43.312-08:00It could be<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbV6YcJkMgL99Q90lAndFHB72SgGX6_5YdAvOMqUL7ub21pieX_-6T_Tw1SYD0CGp3FBnxtQCMMgMA69IwACP8-tgaUFihlk5xCfi3oqTpNqp6spTrplWuknkgA_hNdi8Aeb765w/s1600/009.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 271px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 203px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707033169929690722" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbV6YcJkMgL99Q90lAndFHB72SgGX6_5YdAvOMqUL7ub21pieX_-6T_Tw1SYD0CGp3FBnxtQCMMgMA69IwACP8-tgaUFihlk5xCfi3oqTpNqp6spTrplWuknkgA_hNdi8Aeb765w/s320/009.JPG" /></a><br />Sometimes we read about calculations about when the Geula will arrive and we are not sure whether or not it will happen this time because the other times it didn't. I feel however that even though we are not completely redeemed yet, there are many oppertunities where we can be. Instead of thinking it's not going to happen, we should each work toward making it happen. Each of us can make a difference. Whether with prayer, mitzvos, learning, middos, emunah, unity ... so on. We should show that we really want it and take steps towards it.smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-82919082046260626442012-01-24T01:54:00.000-08:002012-01-24T02:03:21.816-08:00happiness, blessings and gratidude<embed src='http://video.aish.com/jw-player/vn5.8/player.swf' height='385' width='500' bgcolor='0xe5e9f2' allowscriptaccess='always' allowfullscreen='true' flashvars='&backcolor=0xe5e9f2&file=http://videocloud.aish.com/movies/100blessings_large4.mp4&icons=false&image=http://media.aish.com/images/VHundredBlessings640x360.jpg&screencolor=0x000000'/><br /><br /><strong></strong> When we pause and say a blessing before we eat, or for something else, we acknowlege our gratitude to Hashem for providing and taking care of us. And while things may be challenging at times, we should focus on what we have instead of what we don't.smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-91019422851125629682012-01-12T11:40:00.000-08:002012-01-12T11:44:51.460-08:00Yedid Nefesh<iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/PG7lQlofMbg" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br /><br />Beautiful song of the soul yearning to connect to Hashemsmbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-22913043200395602572011-12-26T01:09:00.000-08:002011-12-26T01:12:37.910-08:00Starting anewIs the January 1 significant? Yes <br /><br />A message about using each day to improve and grow<br /><br /><center><object width="500" height="400"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Q7slXmZKJgo?fs=1&hl=en_US&rel=0&color1=0x2b405b&color2=0x6b8ab6"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Q7slXmZKJgo?fs=1&hl=en_US&rel=0&color1=0x2b405b&color2=0x6b8ab6"type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="500" height="400"></embed></object><br /></center>smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-76947928744062862002011-12-10T22:39:00.000-08:002011-12-11T12:56:15.633-08:00Miracle<iframe width="500" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/oHwyTxxQHmQ" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br /><strong>The Maccabeats singing a Matisyahu song. <br />Also featuring Mayim Bialik who pretends to be a Maccabeat. </strong><br /><br />Chanuka reminds us that it is Hashem that runs the world. While things might seem impossible, really anything is possible if G-d wills it, for example a small group defeating a huge army.<br /><br />Divine Providence, hashgacha pratis is all around, we just need to keep our eyes open and listen to the messages around us, whether it be a personal message or collective one. <br /><br />Happy Chanuka<br />Lets spread some light<br /><br />-smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-46218272478257493332011-10-24T00:49:00.000-07:002011-10-24T01:04:58.303-07:00my loose lipsI use to Not find it so difficult to keep shemiras haloshon. I didn't really have much to talk about others. But nowadays, I find it harder to keep because things have changed like a friend that came back into my life. I talk about them to others, but know I shouldn't. The good thing is that maybe now I'll receive more points by guarding my tongue since it's harder.<br /><br />The Chafetz Chaim mentions that when we speak poorly, we block prayers and blessing. But <span style="color:#000099;">guarding our tongue helps to bring blessing</span>. <em>Of course, there are times when we need to say something to protect people. For that we learn what to say and how.</em><br /><em></em><br />Well have a good week<br /><em></em>smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-59378370148917679452011-10-24T00:18:00.000-07:002011-10-24T01:07:04.952-07:00love of HashemWhen things are pleasent, we thank Hashem for the enjoyable moment. And when things are challenging, we try to trust that things are for the best. From Tehillim 92<br />Example of the 2nd<br />I was engaged, but it didn't work out. It was a mutual decision and we cried while speaking. I know that it's better that it happened beforehand BH, rather than later.<br /><br />Or I might be in an annoying sitution, but I try to see what I can learn from it, like so and so helped me to be more assertive.<br />I use to want my days to be perfect, but that doesn't happen, except once in a while. There's always some challenge. The thing is to enjoy whatever enjoyable moment we have. And remember that challenges help us to grow.<br /><br /><strong>We can choose to be happy, when we focus on our blessings<br />And then we increase our love for Hashem<br /><br /></strong><iframe height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/RqF4Ik5NQtU" frameborder="0" width="420"></iframe>smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-2617257693499232802011-10-02T21:55:00.001-07:002011-10-24T00:45:59.857-07:00Put it aside and focus productively<strong>During this time, when we want to have a favorable judgement and a good year, lets<em> put aside our grudges</em> about others. It's very hard to do, yes. But it's worth it at least for our own sake. </strong><br /><br />People can sometimes be annoying. But we shouldn't let that ruin our day. We need to focus on more productive things. Life can be misrable or enjoyable depending on how we look at it.<br /><br /><strong>While it's hard for us Jews to completely come together, each of us personally can make an effort to find the good in people around us and build our ahavas yisrael </strong>Shana tovah everyone<br /><br />-smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-82223373785722986342011-10-02T11:55:00.001-07:002011-10-02T12:12:00.225-07:00Becoming Partner<center><br /><object width="470" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/4ya8OUb0SQY?fs=1&hl=en_US&rel=0&color1=0x2b405b&color2=0x6b8ab6"></param><br /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><br /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><br /><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/4ya8OUb0SQY?fs=1&hl=en_US&rel=0&color1=0x2b405b&color2=0x6b8ab6"type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="470" height="385"><br /></embed><br /></object><br /></center><br /><br /><strong> When we are aware of what we need to improve on, we can really go forward to overcome things and reach our potential. Life can be hard, but G-d believes in us and wants us to become partner</strong>smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-79929061134705803552011-09-01T02:26:00.000-07:002015-03-23T15:25:34.617-07:00Going forward in life and heritageMany different things in this world are tempting, and the yetzer hara plays on those desires all around us, especially when someone's religious practice is rote and feels dry. Plus, many different negative situations are going on around us, one could fall through the cracks, G-d forbid.<br />
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smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-74363377424629497002011-07-19T12:38:00.000-07:002018-06-19T22:19:39.383-07:00LETS REALLY DO SOMETHINGWe've heard this lesson many times during the three weeks that we need rectify ourselves and unify to bring redemption. The problem is when a person is in the moment, we tend to forget. For example, someone is angry that this person didn't invite them to the wedding. Or someone criticized them and they didn't like it, or two people are arguing and feel defensive and angry. And many other situations.....<br />
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What we each need to work on is understanding and respect. This takes a lot of practice, but we can succeed if we keep trying, be patient with growth, and stay determined. Every effort counts.<br />
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smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-45285342036017315532011-07-07T13:51:00.000-07:002011-07-07T14:01:50.889-07:00Lost and foundSometimes there are certain things that happen that appear to be coincidence, but is really the Hand of Hashem.<br />We don't know why certain things happen, and why some things don't. But we should remember that He is always there. Sometimes concealed, and sometimes revealed.<br /><br />"Stop That Cab"<br />By: Anonymous<br />Jerusalem, Israel<br />From <a href="http://hashgachapratis.com/stories.html#stop">http://hashgachapratis.com</a> <br /><br /><blockquote>I have a habit of checking my pockets whenever I exit a cab, to be sure that I haven’t forgotten anything. Today, as I departed from the cab I patted down my pockets and sent the cab on his way thinking all was well. A moment later I decided to make a phone call (I just happened to decide that I needed to make a phone call at that moment?). I reached into my pants pocket and ‘lo and behold’ NO PHONE. I looked up the road and saw that the cab was stuck at a red light about 200 feet ahead. (It just happened to be red?) I dashed over to the cab, opened the door, retrieved my phone, and thanked G-d! </blockquote>smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-40173630741662435382011-06-28T00:39:00.000-07:002011-06-28T00:58:02.205-07:00It's never too lateVideo by Mrs. Lori Palatnik<br />-Even if our kids are grown, there's always hope to still make an impact with the help of Hashem, and with time, effort and patience. Even small yet very <span style="color:#000066;">caring expressions</span> can make a big difference<br /><br /><embed height="400" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="500" src="http://video.aish.com/jw-player/vn5.6/player.swf" bgcolor="0xe5e9f2" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" flashvars="&backcolor=0xe5e9f2&file=http://videocloud.aish.com/lori/never2late.mp4&icons=false&image=http://media.aish.com/designimages/MoviePreview-LORI-500x376.jpg&screencolor=0x000000"></embed>smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-47419880141556692922011-06-23T01:17:00.000-07:002011-06-23T02:25:39.220-07:00Dating and MarriageI heard some really good tips and decided to share. They are basic, but good to review. <br /><br /> Make sure to have common values and goals and be realistic. Be understanding with some things, but also aware of other things. Ask someone if you're not sure about something. <br /> Communicate so you know how each other feel and what you both want and need. And be very giving to each other. <br /> Plus, we should be direct. For example, if you tell your husband, I have a meeting at 3, he might not know that means pick up the kids. We have to say, pick them up, so he knows-<br />And when a wife is sad, it's understandable for the husband to want to fix the situation, so he gives a solution. But she really just wants sympathy and encouragement.<br />Plus, both should show each other appreciation so they strenghthen the relationship. <br />Well hope this helpssmbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-85038124629914501162011-06-21T01:02:00.000-07:002011-06-21T01:59:53.774-07:00Great bookI read some of this book called Geula B'Rachamim(redemption with mercy) by Pinchos Winston, and definitely recommend it. The author's words enhance the shemona esrei prayer so we say it with more meaning. Plus, the book overall generally helps to yearn and look forward to the future. He mentions toward the end of the book that to bring the redemption closer, we have to really show we want it. <br />You know how people get comfortable where they are and don't really feel a need for change. However, we really need this. And he says that we should seek it now, rather than when you are desperate. <br /><br />Our prayers can really make a difference. <br /> <br />Torah.org is giving it for free, here's the link<br /><a href="https://wwws.capalon.com/secure/torah/pwinstonBook.php">Geula B'Rachamim</a><br /><br /><br />-smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-75082306838107222562011-06-20T19:23:00.000-07:002011-06-21T01:17:33.848-07:00step by step<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWoXscO97ph_F_uaegKd3IC9fwZW1HCHx-LBAOxjchw4ADxT5Hho6OlU6kNiGrafHKwb7WPYSUiqkpN4frDHSFBUz2HR3fUVGGYQfgIXossewSW6nX9BvbaCfD1xw4UR5RYV1bTw/s1600/007.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 308px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 166px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620483586230942210" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWoXscO97ph_F_uaegKd3IC9fwZW1HCHx-LBAOxjchw4ADxT5Hho6OlU6kNiGrafHKwb7WPYSUiqkpN4frDHSFBUz2HR3fUVGGYQfgIXossewSW6nX9BvbaCfD1xw4UR5RYV1bTw/s320/007.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><div>Success might be slow,</div><br /><br /><div>but baruch Hashem for every small achievement</div><br /><br /><div>I have</div><br /><br /><div>-</div>smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-73942187281462646872011-06-20T19:19:00.000-07:002011-06-20T19:28:12.543-07:00Listen up my soul by David DomeBeautiful song by David Dome<br /><br /><strong>Times are sometimes challenging, but there's always hope.<br />We are all important and can make a difference with Hashem's help<br /><br /></strong><iframe width="500" height="349" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ExEy6dtBr6U" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-20633339703251331132011-06-14T15:07:00.000-07:002011-06-14T15:30:43.370-07:00putting it in perspectiveRecently last week, someone screamed at me and really got on my nerve. I kept thinking about it contiuously. I felt, I should have called them back to let them know that 'so and so' is coming so they know. I could have avoided this incident.<br />Later on, I remembered something that I did a few days beforehand. I screamed at my sister when I should have controlled myself. I had a feeling later something might come around to me, but didn't really expect it. Later, that incident happened with a different person towards me. It made sense now. I couldn't have stopped it, I wasn't meant to call them back, but instead receive measure for measure the same thing I did. My anger melted away because I now understood it was an atonement. Baruch Hashem for clearity<br />-smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-30872242404858217682011-05-31T22:33:00.000-07:002011-05-31T22:41:25.846-07:00The secret to inspirationGreat Shavuot message<br /><br /><embed height="400" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="500" src="http://video.aish.com/jw-player/vn5.6/player.swf" bgcolor="0xe5e9f2" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" flashvars="&backcolor=0xe5e9f2&file=http://videocloud.aish.com/Harary/FOUNDATIONS_Secret_of_Inspiration2.mp4&icons=false&image=http://media.aish.com/designimages/MoviePreview-generic-500x376.jpg&screencolor=0x000000"></embed><br /><strong>Or go here </strong><br /><a href="http://www.aish.com/h/sh/t/48969201.html">http://www.aish.com/h/sh/t/48969201.html</a>smbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com0