A bit of Light

happiness, blessings and gratidude

2012-01-24T01:54:00.000-08:00

When we pause and say a blessing before we eat, or for something else, we acknowlege our gratitude to Hashem for providing and taking care of us. And while things may be challenging at times, we should focus on what we have instead of what we don't.

Yedid Nefesh

2012-01-12T11:40:00.000-08:00

Beautiful song of the soul yearning to connect to Hashem

Starting anew

2011-12-26T01:09:00.000-08:00

Is the January 1 significant? Yes

A message about using each day to improve and grow

Miracle

2011-12-10T22:39:00.000-08:00

The Maccabeats singing a Matisyahu song.
Also featuring Mayim Bialik who pretends to be a Maccabeat.

Chanuka reminds us that it is Hashem that runs the world. While things might seem impossible, really anything is possible if G-d wills it, for example a small group defeating a huge army.

Divine Providence, hashgacha pratis is all around, we just need to keep our eyes open and listen to the messages around us, whether it be a personal message or collective one.

Happy Chanuka
Lets spread some light

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my loose lips

2011-10-24T00:49:00.000-07:00

I use to Not find it so difficult to keep shemiras haloshon. I didn't really have much to talk about others. But nowadays, I find it harder to keep because things have changed like a friend that came back into my life. I talk about them to others, but know I shouldn't. The good thing is that maybe now I'll receive more points by guarding my tongue since it's harder.

The Chafetz Chaim mentions that when we speak poorly, we block prayers and blessing. But guarding our tongue helps to bring blessing. Of course, there are times when we need to say something to protect people. For that we learn what to say and how.

Well have a good week

love of Hashem

2011-10-24T00:18:00.000-07:00

When things are pleasent, we thank Hashem for the enjoyable moment. And when things are challenging, we try to trust that things are for the best. From Tehillim 92
Example of the 2nd
I was engaged, but it didn't work out. It was a mutual decision and we cried while speaking. I know that it's better that it happened beforehand BH, rather than later.

Or I might be in an annoying sitution, but I try to see what I can learn from it, like so and so helped me to be more assertive.
I use to want my days to be perfect, but that doesn't happen, except once in a while. There's always some challenge. The thing is to enjoy whatever enjoyable moment we have. And remember that challenges help us to grow.

We can choose to be happy, when we focus on our blessings
And then we increase our love for Hashem

Put it aside and focus productively

2011-10-02T21:55:00.001-07:00

During this time, when we want to have a favorable judgement and a good year, lets put aside our grudges about others. It's very hard to do, yes. But it's worth it at least for our own sake.

People can sometimes be annoying. But we shouldn't let that ruin our day. We need to focus on more productive things. Life can be misrable or enjoyable depending on how we look at it.

While it's hard for us Jews to completely come together, each of us personally can make an effort to find the good in people around us and build our ahavas yisrael Shana tovah everyone

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Becoming Partner

2011-10-02T11:55:00.001-07:00

When we are aware of what we need to improve on, we can really go forward to overcome things and reach our potential. Life can be hard, but G-d believes in us and wants us to become partner

Going forward in life and heritage

2011-09-01T02:26:00.000-07:00

Many different things in this world are tempting, and the yetzer hara plays on those desires. Especially, when someone's practice is rote and feels dry, plus different negative situations are going on around us, one could fall through the cracks, G-d forbid.

here are 4 tips

1. Sometimes things need more soul. When we work on this or help someone else put meaning into it, it becomes uplifted. For example, helping our children feel Hashem's love, and giving them a desire to do what we need to do. - When challenges arise in life, listen and sympathize, and help them understand our challenges help us grow. And know that sometimes it's the little things that make a big difference, like a hug.

2 Give them the intellectual stimulation they need to help them improve their knowledge and emunah. Each person is different. We need to give each child what they specifically need to help them enjoyably learn and grow.

3 Be a Good Example of Good Middos and behavior to inspire them to continue forward.

4 And Pray for assistance, whatever the situation, whether to feel it more or help someone else. Whether to understand well and give it over. Or to be a good example and positively inspire others
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LETS REALLY DO SOMETHING

2011-07-19T12:38:00.000-07:00

We are in the three weeks. We've heard this lesson many times that we need rectify ourselves and unify to be redeemed. The problem is when a person is in the moment, we tend to forget. For example, someone is angry that this person didn't invite them to the wedding. Or someone criticized them and they didn't like it, or two people are arguing and feel defensive and angry. And many other situations.....

What we each need to work on is understanding and respect. This takes a lot of practice, but we can succeed if we keep trying, be patient with growth, and stay determined. Every effort counts.

The next time you feel offended by someone, or are having an argument, try to understand where they are coming from. If their thinking is faulty, explain nicely why you think so. - If you find they are actually right, admit it.

Now in regards to loshon hara and gossip, think before speaking. Yes it feels good at the moment to say it, but does it need to be said? Our Yetzer hara says yes and tries to justify it. "They insulted you" or "It's just harmless info." The only time we can say it, or listen to it, is if it's for a constructive purpose, like to protect yourself or others from a dangerous situation, for example. And even then, we still need to investigate to see if it's true.

Listening to general gossip is also bad. Even if we are not saying it, we are still accountable for listening, especially if we accept the info. before investigating. - What do you do in a situation where people you are with are saying it? The Chafetz Chaim gives three ideas.

>Tell them to not do it.

< If this won't work, walk away for a while. -

>If you can't leave, make up in your mind that you will Not accept the info.

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In general, we should each work on being understanding and respectful of each other, especially when it's difficult. - Don't gossip. - Plus, we should continue to make an effort to improve. We might see others who are Not doing much while we are trying hard, but don't get discouraged. We should focus on our own personal growth and be a good example for others. - May Am Yisrael be pleasantly inspired to unite and may the geula sheleima come soon

Lost and found

2011-07-07T13:51:00.000-07:00

Sometimes there are certain things that happen that appear to be coincidence, but is really the Hand of Hashem.
We don't know why certain things happen, and why some things don't. But we should remember that He is always there. Sometimes concealed, and sometimes revealed.

"Stop That Cab"
By: Anonymous
Jerusalem, Israel
From http://hashgachapratis.com

I have a habit of checking my pockets whenever I exit a cab, to be sure that I haven’t forgotten anything. Today, as I departed from the cab I patted down my pockets and sent the cab on his way thinking all was well. A moment later I decided to make a phone call (I just happened to decide that I needed to make a phone call at that moment?). I reached into my pants pocket and ‘lo and behold’ NO PHONE. I looked up the road and saw that the cab was stuck at a red light about 200 feet ahead. (It just happened to be red?) I dashed over to the cab, opened the door, retrieved my phone, and thanked G-d!

It's never too late

2011-06-28T00:39:00.000-07:00

Video by Mrs. Lori Palatnik
-Even if our kids are grown, there's always hope to still make an impact with the help of Hashem, and with time, effort and patience. Even small yet very caring expressions can make a big difference

Dating and Marriage

2011-06-23T01:17:00.000-07:00

I heard some really good tips and decided to share. They are basic, but good to review.

Make sure to have common values and goals and be realistic. Be understanding with some things, but also aware of other things. Ask someone if you're not sure about something.
Communicate so you know how each other feel and what you both want and need. And be very giving to each other.
Plus, we should be direct. For example, if you tell your husband, I have a meeting at 3, he might not know that means pick up the kids. We have to say, pick them up, so he knows-
And when a wife is sad, it's understandable for the husband to want to fix the situation, so he gives a solution. But she really just wants sympathy and encouragement.
Plus, both should show each other appreciation so they strenghthen the relationship.
Well hope this helps

Great book

2011-06-21T01:02:00.000-07:00

I read some of this book called Geula B'Rachamim(redemption with mercy) by Pinchos Winston, and definitely recommend it. The author's words enhance the shemona esrei prayer so we say it with more meaning. Plus, the book overall generally helps to yearn and look forward to the future. He mentions toward the end of the book that to bring the redemption closer, we have to really show we want it.
You know how people get comfortable where they are and don't really feel a need for change. However, we really need this. And he says that we should seek it now, rather than when you are desperate.

Our prayers can really make a difference.

Torah.org is giving it for free, here's the link
Geula B'Rachamim

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step by step

2011-06-20T19:23:00.000-07:00

Success might be slow,

but baruch Hashem for every small achievement

I have

Listen up my soul by David Dome

2011-06-20T19:19:00.000-07:00

Beautiful song by David Dome

Times are sometimes challenging, but there's always hope.
We are all important and can make a difference with Hashem's help

putting it in perspective

2011-06-14T15:07:00.000-07:00

Recently last week, someone screamed at me and really got on my nerve. I kept thinking about it contiuously. I felt, I should have called them back to let them know that 'so and so' is coming so they know. I could have avoided this incident.
Later on, I remembered something that I did a few days beforehand. I screamed at my sister when I should have controlled myself. I had a feeling later something might come around to me, but didn't really expect it. Later, that incident happened with a different person towards me. It made sense now. I couldn't have stopped it, I wasn't meant to call them back, but instead receive measure for measure the same thing I did. My anger melted away because I now understood it was an atonement. Baruch Hashem for clearity
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The secret to inspiration

2011-05-31T22:33:00.000-07:00

Great Shavuot message

Or go here
http://www.aish.com/h/sh/t/48969201.html

Keeping them on the right track

2011-05-23T21:02:00.000-07:00

A while ago while at Touro LA, some classmates and I took a class where we researched information and then discussed some ways to help Jewish youth.
The situations we studied were for example,

One situation is where the home environment might Not be enjoyable. They just feel the strictness of do's and don'ts, but they don't see the beauty in their heritage, and they look for something different. To improve this, we need to add some warmth and joy to the environment, so they want to continue it when on their own.

There's also those that feel intellectually frustrated if their questions are not answered. For this, we should take the time to talk to them and find information to help them strengthen their knowledge and emunah

Another scenario is when some individuals go to college and find out things that go against what they learned. If they don't have a strong foundation, this can hurt them. One of my classmates suggested that before this person goes to college, they should be told beforehand what they might encounter, for example, "They believe in evolution where.....but we don't because....."

There are also teens that get turned off when they see a bad example of someone who should know better, and yet acts poorly. Obviously, we all make mistakes, but it still gives them a negative impression, which is why we need to be careful with middos and behavior.

Something that a friend mentioned to me recently is that Some students have a hard time keeping up with the learning. For example, they might not be ready to learn Gemorah yet, and need some time learning something else before that. And so they should given something that's more on their level so they can thrive.
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Well I hope this message helps. Of course, there are plenty of other scenarios that also occur. I know that this message is easier said than done. It takes time, effort, patience and prayer. May Hashem help our good efforts succeed in making a good impact
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Our gift and oppertunity

2011-05-23T18:34:00.000-07:00

Which way

2011-05-23T17:59:00.000-07:00

I was talking to someone and they told me about how it can sometimes be confusing when you hear about different viewpoints and different ways. It makes you wonder which way to go, and is this way the right way?

When experiencing this, we should pray to Hashem to help us have clearity and follow the path of His will.
Hashem helps us whichever path we choose, whether we choose this road or that road. And so if we desire to follow His way, He will help with that, IY'H
As is refferred in Tehillim 145:16 and the prayer Ashrei.

Plus, we should seek advice from a Rav, like it says in the book Ethics of the Fathers, to help us figure things out.

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"Meet your "bad" angel"

2011-05-15T12:47:00.000-07:00

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Charlie Harary speaks on the Six Constant Mitzvos
In here, he speaks of what the Oneness of G-d means, and that the good and bad inclination work for the same Boss, helping us to grow

For more
The six constant Mitzvos
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Some acapella

2011-05-01T15:45:00.000-07:00

Acapella of the song Gadol, Aka Pella 2; music version from Shalsheles 2

Happy Pesach

2011-04-12T14:38:00.000-07:00

Pesach is almost upon us. The time when we were redeemed, and later given the Torah and a mission to keep it so we can connect to Hashem and spread light through the world. There are some times when we might fall back somewhat, but we can still stand back up and go forward. And besides cleaning the house, we should also clean and improve ourselves, either with middos(traits) or spirtual matters etc.
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May the final redemption come soon. We can help make it happen with our efforts of self growth, unity, prayer, and emunah(faith)
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Hope everyone has a happy Pesach
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here is Jewish directory if you are looking for
a pesach seder to go to click here

Use words wisley

2011-04-05T03:19:00.000-07:00

Nowadays, we live in a world where people just say whatever they want and don't really care how it effects people. I think that Shimiras ha lashon(guarding speech) was made for this generation. When someone speaks very rudely about someone, who they think is silly or weird , that's sad. We shouldn't stoop to the level of making fun of people, or Unnecessarily criticizing someone. While we might think that 'so and so' is silly or weird, we should use discipline and self control.
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Of course, sometimes we need to say something about someone if it is for a constructive purpose like protecting people, then you go talk to someone who can help fix the situation. Otherwise, talking rudely or making fun of someone is just wrong. We should remember that Lashon hara and hurtful words have consequences both physically and spiritually, where as shimiras halason brings blessing. We wonder where Moshiach is. It's up to us to help bring it closer with our effort of unity, we can each make a difference

8th day ya'alili

2011-04-01T12:39:00.000-07:00

bringing Ashkenaz and Sephardic together

Something deeper going on here

2011-03-27T00:07:00.000-07:00

Some things are not logical, like how the world can be so against good guys, and supportive of radicals. You would think that people would be able to tell the difference between regular inviduals and people who want to destroy. But I guess, like they say, if you tell a lie long enough, people believe it. The bad side looks good, and the good, bad. There are many countries who commit atrocities to people and yet people generally focus on us. Of course, with other things going on now, people are also focusing on others, but also still on us. With so much attention on us through the years, something deeper has to be going on. The world doesn't care about us(if they can justify the murder of a family). Of course, we should still try to inform people and help them understand our side. But overall, we generally can't count on the world. We really only have each other and Hashem. We need to stick together and to the One Above. With unity and prayer, we have strength and blessing. It might be hard to do, but we can each make a difference.

Nice scenery vid

2011-03-16T11:35:00.000-07:00

Some nice photos I took. Song, V'atoh kisvu by the group Menucha

Doing what we can

2011-03-13T00:00:00.000-08:00

With all the things going on, it can be very overwhelming. This happens and that etc. and it really hurts. But our positive acts can make a difference. These times are like birth pangs. However, we should remember that there's a light at the end of the tunnel. may the redemption come soon -

Two halves of a whole

2011-03-10T18:13:00.000-08:00

man and woman, two halves of a whole.
so different and yet also similar.
Both with a different important role,
each one serving Hashem(G-d)

They find each other and
come together in marriage
becoming one soul again.

The Shabbos candles shine bright as
She brings in the shabbos with a prayer,
and brings light to the world.
He makes the kiddish blessing over the wine,
and the world is elevated.

Their relationship is rejuvenated with the
mitzvah of family purity and mikvah, and
bring blessing to the home.

They share in the reward of
his Torah learning.
Her modest clothes,
bring out her inner beauty.

she and him raise the next generation
as they pass their heritage down
to their children and help them grow.

Two people, one soul
fulfilling their mission

For candle lighting articles, the kiddush blessing and other info
http://www.aish.com/sh/

On family purity and mikvah
http://www.askmoses.com/article.html?h=675&o=71

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Purim, and turning things around

2011-03-03T20:50:00.000-08:00

From this Purim page, here is a very inpiring video about Purim and going from a darkness to light

The Tunnel

2011-03-03T17:56:00.000-08:00

I wrote this post before, but recently I made a vid for it. I'm introduced in the beginning. The vid was cut a bit short though, but you can read the last part at the bottom of this post.

They were going through a tunnel
dark and cold.
Each path led to a dead end.
Lets take this one, someone said.
Another chose a different path.

There was one person that knew,
but the people didn't listen.
They kept looking
for the way out,
and the shining light.
But didn't succeed.
Over time, things got harder.

Finally, after a long time,
they decided
to go with this person's
solution.
They took this path,
and saw a brightness
in front of them,
and the salvation they were
looking for.
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Sometimes, we are stuck in a situation and we try different ways to solve it but can't. Someone tells us to turn to Hashem, plus work on ourself, but sometimes we don't listen. Eventually, we decide to give it a shot. Our change of situation might take time or be quick. But we should do what we need to do, and then trust G-d to do the rest.

This works on both a personal and national level. What Israel needs is three things.
Unity among each other, follow Torah and mitzvos, and turn to Hashem to help us. Politicians have tried different things but failed. Only Hashem can help.

May our redemption come soon
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great album

2011-02-17T12:58:00.000-08:00

Found this video of the very beautiful song, Boee b'shalom, Yaakov Shwekey

Upbeat and Uplifting, Rau Banim

Plus, on this album, there are great Sephardic songs like Libi b'mizrach and others.
Check it out at mostlymusic.com

Bringing Israel together

2011-02-15T12:57:00.000-08:00

This guy Yitzchok Meir works on the Jewish unity project trying to bring Jews together as one people, baruch Hashem.
In this video, he's speaking on a Friday afternoon to a group of soldiers, introducing himself and then telling his message about the need for unity

here they are singing Mishe nichnas Adar

Enhancing the couple relationship

2011-02-14T14:46:00.000-08:00

I've been reading some really good tips from a certain marriage book, to prepare and know what I need to know. With the info I read a while ago from other things and this info from recently, I figured I would share it to help others. A lot of it is stuff we know, but it's a good reminder.

-Each spouse should focus on their own responsibility so they both accomplish what they need to do. And if one spouse is not able to do something that day, it's okay. Sometimes you might be doing more than the other. And other times, they might be doing more. But you should both just focus on doing the best you can.

Show appreciation to each other at different times to encourage each other and uplift.

Let each other know what you need/want since people are not mind readers. :)
And try to work things out patiently.

If the person is going through a hard time, be understanding, patient and supportive of them.

Pray to Hashem to help you both with shalom bayis and to deal with challenges productively and with emunah. Learn together how to do this.

hatzlacha :)

How do you parent

2011-02-09T17:04:00.001-08:00

That Asian parenting article in Time magazine got me thinking.

What kind parent are you? A strict parent, permissive or in between?

I would be in between. I believe in giving both structure and love. Children need to have bounderies and learn from a young age good behavior etc so they learn responsibility and understand that there's consequences. But they also need love and joy in their life. Especially, if we are trying to pass down our heritage, they should enjoy it so they want to keep it, plus also learn why it's important.

What do you do?

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great album

2011-02-06T15:29:00.000-08:00

Upbeat, soulful and amazing
Shalsheles 5

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Alleviating Hardships

2011-01-30T23:12:00.000-08:00

Rabbi Arush in the book 'The Garden of Emunah' gives some good advice to alleviate hardships. Here's a general message from different parts of the book.

His message is that in life, different situations are annoying, worrisome, sad or painful. But we should understand that it is Hashem(G-d) who gives us these situations. Why does He? We don't know. Since we don't see the big picture, we don't totally understand. That's where emunah(faith) comes in and says, even though I don't understand, I trust it is for my benefit because Hashem knows what is best for me. (This level of thinking is very hard but helps in these situations)

One of the things we should do is introspection and see what we need to improve on. Plus, since we might have made a mistake that we either remember or don't remember, pray for forgiveness and assistance to improve. (And make an effort).

Understand that challenges cleanse us and help us to grow stronger and reach our potential. (It's like how excersize is hard work but grows muscle.) Hashem cares about us and knows we can do it.
When we understand this, we can thank Hashem for cleansing us and helping us to grow strong. This is very hard to do, but it has an impact on improving the situation, whether quickly or slowly. If we take time to reflect on this each day, it will help immensely- G-d willing.
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Note that in life, we will continue to have challenges, but this advice helps to deal with it productively and turn it into a tool for growth

For the book buy it here Online or from your local Judaica store

put some meaning in it

2011-01-18T17:42:00.000-08:00

Turn your practice into something very meaningful-
here,
the importance of knowing why to keep the mitzvos

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2011-01-11T02:16:00.000-08:00

Tzadik Katamar by Yosef Kardunar

Beautiful video

worth the wait

2011-01-09T00:00:00.000-08:00

waiting and waiting
it takes time,
and so I keep going.
When will the one come-

Years go by,
I do other things
and enjoy the moment
while I can.
I pray for both
myself and others;

Someone suggests
an idea and I call
a friend.
It is set up and
we see how it goes.

Baruch Hashem :)

Life and shots

2011-01-03T00:52:00.000-08:00

We don't know why things happen, and it's can be painful. However, we can lean on Hashem for comfort and feel His hug

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music: language of my soul

2010-12-13T19:07:00.001-08:00

Zevi Kaufman and Shloime Kaufman great album

I first heard it on mostlymusic.com

here is a clip from Jewish music report's audio podcast

happy Chanukah

2010-12-05T00:06:00.000-08:00

As we light a new candle each night and increase the light, may our blessings increase.

Happy Chanukah

Spreading the light

2010-11-21T23:40:00.000-08:00

This video is of a family that has many guests in their home for Shabbos. Them and the guests are participating in Havadalah( a prayer before welcoming the new week)
What's so special is that besides sharing Shabbos with others in their own home, they have a website to help others share Shabbos together by matching up hosts with guests shabbat.com Baruch Hashem, may they continue their excellent work.

It will work out

2010-11-21T21:05:00.000-08:00

Situations and people can sometimes be annoying. A boss, a co-worker, a parent, a child, a sibling. Sometimes, we need something to work out and people don't cooperate like we want. Like what happened to a friend of mine at his work when he wanted something. This can be frustrating, however, we shouldn't take our anger out on them. If it doesn't work the way we want, it's not meant to be. Like if someone hypothetically wants the corner office and doesn't get it, then it's not for them. The people around us are only the messenger. Hashem is in charge and might have other plans. - We sometimes don't know how things are going to work out, but eventually they do if we continue to make an Effort, have patience and trust in Hashem. It's hard at first to remember this, but if we practice it, we will eventually be good at trusting in Hashem that things will work out for the best, I'yH

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From sorrow to joy

2010-11-09T00:06:00.000-08:00

I told something like this to a friend and now to you

Life can be hard
we wonder sometimes why.
Pain and darkness
in different places;
It can be overwhelming.

Someone comes in
with a listening ear
and caring heart.
And turns the darkness
to light.

The world can be harsh,
our job is to do positive acts
thereby mending our
surroundings and
our world.

Always remember,
that while there's sorrow,
there's also hope
and beautiful world

2010-10-18T18:07:00.000-07:00

Some music by Shlomo Katz

living in 2010

2010-10-04T16:56:00.000-07:00

Found this on a blog and they got it from an email.

- author of list, unknown

YOU KNOW YOU ARE LIVING IN 2010 when...

1. You accidentally enter your password on the microwave..

2. You haven't played solitaire with real cards in years.

3. You have a list of 15 phone numbers to reach your family of 3.

4. You e-mail the person who works at the desk next to you...

5. Your reason for not staying in touch with friends and family is that they
don't have e-mail addresses .

6. You pull up in your own driveway and use your cell phone to see if
anyone is home to help you carry in the groceries.

7. Every commercial on television has a web site at the bottom of the screen.

8. Leaving the house without your cell phone, which you didn't have the first 20 or 30 (or 60) years of your life, is now a cause for panic and you turn around to go and get it.

10. You get up in the morning and go on line before getting your coffee.

11. You start tilting your head sideways to smile. : )

12.. You're reading this and nodding and laughing.

13. Even worse, you know exactly to whom you are going to forward this message.

14. You are too busy to notice there was no #9 on this list.

15. You actually scrolled back up to check that there wasn't a #9 on this list.

AND NOW U R LAUGHING AT YOURSELF

Go on, forward this to your friends. You know you want to.

take 2

2010-09-28T17:03:00.000-07:00

life can be so busy running around and trying to do everything. It can be stressful and we feel the wear and tear. What we need to do is take two. Breath in and relax for a couple minutes.

Thereby, calming the mind and refreshing the body. Too much stress wears down the body and then we are more susceptible to things like colds etc. However, when you pause and take a deep breath, you let go of the stress and start to heal.

The ultimate shelter

2010-09-15T23:32:00.001-07:00

Enjoy the video

Peace talks won't do it

2010-09-12T14:08:00.000-07:00

It's interesting how there are peacetalks with different politicians, and afterwards there's Parshat Haazinu which mentions something about this, I'll say afterwards.

This Parsha mentions how we went astray, and afterwards we see the effect of that. It's like when a kid goes to wild party and gets waisted on beer and stuff, and then they face the consequences. We want to do whatever and it's fun for awhile, but then we need to face the music. Just like our parents give us instructions for our benefit, so too, Hashem gives us instructions for our benefit. - Remember that besides feeding our body, we also need to feed our soul and keep it nourished and strong.

This parsha speaks also about how we trust in those that can't give us peace and redemption. But to no avail. People try, but can't seem to bring about peace. Peace will come when we realize that Only Hashem can give us peace and redemption. The roadmap is right here. While Some people know this Baruch Hashem, there are many who don't. And so we should take a lesson from this and come together and say 'Hashem it is You who does everything' Lets turn to Him and may we joyfully be redeemed soon

on a sidenote, unity is also factor to help us and this site http://shabbat.com/ helps by pairing a guest and a host for Shabbos meals and baruch Hashem joining Jews together

Creation's song

2010-09-05T23:15:00.000-07:00

On Rosh Hashana we are experiencing the birthday of creation. Here is an inspiring video to help give us that awe and joy for yom tov

beautiful video

Persistance

2010-08-19T16:09:00.000-07:00

In a lecture that Rabbi Reuven wolf gives at Maayon Yisrael, he mentions what it means in Tehillim 27, the verse, "Hashem you are my light and salvation." He mentions about the challenge we have with fighting our yetzer hara, and how it can be very powerful over us.

I know this personally. I use to have such a big temper, but found that it only made things worse. I decided to do something about it. It's hard when you are in the moment and feel so much tension, but we just need to remember to try to clear our mind and breath. It's a continuous test, but we have the ability to choose the better path.

Rabbi Wolf explains that this is meant by the verse 'Hashem is my light and salvation.' Eventhough we have a strong desire to do something we shouldn't do, we can turn it around and choose another way with Hashem's help

Here is a video from another verse in Tehillim 27

LETS RECHARGE

2010-08-12T02:22:00.000-07:00

It is in the air

the time is approaching

to recharge our soul

How should we

go about this?

The first step

is to look inside ourself.

Sometimes, it's hard.

We are worried to

face what we might find.

But it's necessary

in order to improve ouself

and grow

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We go learn and practice

and nourish our soul;

Blessing is brought down

to here-

Of course, we sometimes

makes mistakes and that

makes negative energy.

But we can always stand

back up and move ahead

up the ladder,

lifting ourself

while bringing light

to the world

Here is a beautiful video; It is for Shavous but I wanted to show it because it's a great message

the little things

2010-08-03T01:03:00.000-07:00

Growing up
their favorite memories
were of those quality
times with their family

After lunch on Shabbos
they continued singing
And played in the
living room with dad

At night, mom tucked
them in and they sang
Shema

It might be small but
It's the little things
that make a difference

Good reminder that small deeds do make a difference

-Inspired by something I saw at someone's house

Rights vs Obligation

2010-08-01T17:44:00.000-07:00

Sometimes people focus a lot on their rights, like the right to say what they want. However, few think about their obligations, like to not hurt a friend with their words. The problem is when a person cares more about him/herself than about the other. Of course, there are times when we need to say something about someone inorder to protect others. And so there are Jewish rules for how to do it. - But if the negative info is not important, then it's not necessary to mention.

It's very hard to keep away from gossip sometimes, but when we make an effort, we earn tremendous blessings.

Another thing is when we are in shul(synagogue). The point of shul is to daven(pray).

Some people go there to do just that, daven, and afterwards go eat and smooze with others.

Some women however, feel that they want more. They want to stand in front of the congragation, read from the Torah Scroll and lead the prayers. They feel it's their right.

But that's not what shul is about. Shul is not about doing what you want. Shul is about doing what G-d wants. Therefore, in shul, we women should stick to just standing with our fellow Jews and praying together.

There are plenty of other mitzvahs outside of synagogue, like lighting Shabbos candles in our home before sun-down. Helping the community. Going to the mikva(ritual bath) once a month. And passing down our faith to the next generation, and so on

On a side note, prayer is for everone's benefit. It helps us to reflect on ourselves, seek Hashem for assistance, and be grateful for what we have.

Some inspiration

2010-08-01T13:30:00.000-07:00

Sometimes, things in life are pleasant. And sometimes, it's challenging and hard.
When it's pleasant, we should appreciate what we have, both the big and small things and enjoy our blessings that we're given.

When we feel like times are dark and overwhelming, we should turn to Hashem and trust that Hashem will help us through it. Of course, it's Not easy, but takes time, determination and patience

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Taking action

2010-07-19T17:57:00.000-07:00

This year, lets take with us the message of the churban, and each take action in our personal lives, and try to improve our relationships and interactions. Whether it is with a family member or a friend, or someone else in the community. And if we need to, we should ask for assistance from someone. We can each make a difference and bring the Geula closer.

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great song

2010-06-22T01:10:00.000-07:00

Great classic song sung in accapella

When we have a task, we might feel that we have to be perfect and cross the finish line. However, in the book Pirkei Avos, we see that what counts more is the journey rather than the finish line. Of course, it feels very good when we accomplish something. But we shouldn't be discouraged when something looks very hard. We should remember that every effort counts even if we don't cross the finish line. We should just do the best we can and keep making an effort forward

Plus, it mentions our hope for the future

dreaming

2010-06-21T00:00:00.000-07:00

A poem

We go into a deep slumber;
And slip into the dream world;
Anything is possible;
And we can do anything;

A medley starts to play.
One I don't know, but
Only in my dream.
I wake up and try to
remember, but can't.
It's okay, there's
always more

Model unity at my friend's house

2010-06-20T18:18:00.000-07:00

A week ago on Shabbos, I was at my friend's in the late afternoon. We sat and shmoozed and then gathered to eat. One by one some more girls came. The interesting thing is that we're many different individuals gathered together.
Modern Orthodox and Bais Yaakov, one baal teshuvah and one secular girl,
and American and Persian

We chatted and sang zemiros and had a beautiful Shabbos

Of course, this would probably be harder on a global scale, but still it's a good example.

In general, when we communicate, look at the whole story, and try to see the spark in each of us, we can be strong.

Lets gather and pray to Hashem, may we be redeemed soon and peacefully.

Successfully handing our faith

2010-06-20T17:05:00.000-07:00

Firstly, how do you like my new design??

Okay, Tips for handing down our heritage and faith

In regards to chinuch, many are mainly taught just what to do when practicing, but don't really understand or feel it inside. We need to know why to do it, so it's meaningful. For example, besides because it's our obligation, it's also food for our soul. It connects us to Ha-shem and also brings light to the world.

Both reverence and love for G-d are important. If we are a good example of both reverence and love of G-d, it'll encourage others to keep the message.

I heard awhile ago a good explanation of how awe should be taught. For example, we see how precious our spouse is, and we are in awe of them. We don't want to hurt the relationship because there's consequences and we disconnect. - Of course, since we are human, we make mistakes sometimes. However, we have the chance to get back up and go forward. Hashem forgives and brings us back if we make the effort.

Love of G-d and Torah should be taught by showing the beauty and joy. Make Shabbos very special with zemiros and quality time together. Inspire youth to pray from the heart and appreciate our blessings. And when we learn, feel that G-d is speaking to us -

Help them to feel that Hashem is always there providing for us. And when we have challenges, we should trust it's for the best, and He will help us through it

Plus, encourage their questions, and search for information together in order to strengthen emunah. I took a class in which we really delve deep into the Chumash, and learned a lot that I didn't know. This is great for any study. Many who do this find it very intellectually stimulating.

If parents and teachers are good examples of middos, wisdom, caring, and emunah, and give youth what they need both emotionally and intellectually, then the youth will internalize it and want to keep it with them

Inspiring singer and his story

2010-06-15T19:04:00.000-07:00

Zach's Story from Zacharia Music on Vimeo.

going higher

2010-04-28T22:34:00.000-07:00

Over time as we practice,
routine sets in.
praying, and other things
become a shell without a core.
And there's also the struggle
for concentration

With self encouragment
I focus on the meaning
and picture what the prayer
is talking about.
With the morning prayer,
I imagine Hashem providing us
with what we need
like clothing and so on,
and being grateful.

With effort,
feeling that connection to Above
as I say the words from my heart
like in Birkas hamazon,
racheim na, u'vney...

It happens sometimes that I
just say straight through.
But then I try to encourage myself
to say it with feeling.

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Prayer is a great time to talk to Hashem, ask for assistance, and say Thanks for the blessings we have, big and small.

Lets be who we should be

2010-04-26T00:57:00.000-07:00

I was reading something in a paper, and the lady had a good point. She mentioned that sometimes we hear a lot of negative things going on like so-and-so did this and that and so on. And it gets to us after awhile. And she is right that it's not the way to be. We have so much potential and can truely be great individuals if we choose to be.

For example, I read an inspiring story about this person who decided to look for a better job, and so he told his boss about his request to leave. His boss told him to not tell anyone because he was very well like and they'd be disappointed, and so he didn't. Later, on the day he was leaving, he decided to tell one person working there. They were very sad that he was leaving because he was the only one that said good morning to them, which influenced others to say good morning too. - It's amazing what a small deed becomes.

While trying to look for inspiring examples, I found this.
This article is from January 2009
Shabbos of Chizuk
In general, whether we do something small like say good morning to someone, or do something big like volunteer somewhere, this is what we should be, a holy nation spreading light and blessing.

Aurora or amazing colorful sky

2010-04-11T17:43:00.000-07:00

One of the most popular pics on my blog, posted a long while ago besides a star pic I posted. I found it while searching for nice sky pics.

Beautiful music

2010-03-24T12:26:00.000-07:00

Hallelu By Yaakov Chesed band

There's more beautiful music at my youtube channel in my favorites like yofyafisa and other songs

Here you go

My friends chevra

2010-03-21T22:39:00.000-07:00

Recently, I was in Kew Gardens Hills and stayed with a couple I know. On Shabbos, they introduced me to their friends, who are an eclectic group of different individuals. BH, they were very sweet, and I blended in with the group. We hung out all day and shmoozed. I guess if I ever decide to move there, I have a connection already, BH.
Los Angeles, where I am, is cool too. Love giving people a tour. I even gave myself a tour a long while ago to places I wanted to have deeper look at, for example, in the area called beverly wood, among other places

Well anyhoo, have a good week

Our power

2010-03-21T22:30:00.000-07:00

Life is sometimes challenging and we feel like our days are constantly gray. However, we decide how to react and respond. It's easy to let things just get to us and make us misrable and stressed. However, another path we can take is to try to stay positive and do what we can to improve things. It's up to us ---
It might take time of course, but what helps is to think of some pleasent things we have while we are waiting for what we want.

I'm waiting to find a job and a spouse and I'm making an effort to receive both. In the mean time, I'm finishing my degree, do some interesting reading, spend time with friends, listen to music etc. While I feel sometimes that I keep going to job interviews and dates and nothing happens, I have faith that eventually, I'll recieve what I'm looking for IY"H

Sparkling yard

2010-02-28T20:26:00.000-08:00

Just had to take a pic of the sparkling water . Like diamonds on the grass. Of course, it shows more in person, but still nice.

Click any pic to view bigger image

The effort that changed the event

2010-02-15T14:56:00.000-08:00

They woke up and looked outside. In one corner there was a hint of sunlight, and in the other corner there was gray clouds. 'Interesting' they thought.

They got ready and went to Coffee Bean to meet some friends. After talking for a while, one of them mentioned that they are planning on going to this awesome purim party.

Someone sitting nearby overheard the mention of this and felt a little concerned, and then thought of an interesting idea.

The moment had come and they gathered into the room where everything was set up. It looked a little different, but it didn't matter.
The music started, and the lights colored the walls. One of them looked around at the colors and said, 'Nice touch'

They were smoozing and drinking, and then the music stopped and someone said on the mirophone, "Everyone, put down your drinks and gather around in the center."

They were curious as to what's going on, but decided to follow along. They all gathered in the center, and the speaker said, 'Now I'm going to show you some true celebration." The music started again and everyone danced in a circle. Their joyous energy filled the room for a long while. Then they walked back and one person said, 'Man I'm wiped out'

They looked around for a drink but didn't see any. "Where it go?" They said. There was only bottled water. Disappointed, they still took a cup because they were thirsty.
One of them went up to the speaker and said,"What gives?"
He answered, "You had some, now enjoy the party."

The group smoozed a little more and then the speaker said, "Anyone up for some improv?"
A few people took turns putting on a skit. Some of them were really good!

After awhile, the party came to a close, and everyone went home.

The next day, someone was talking his friend and mentioned the interesting party he went to.
His friend answered, 'That sounds better than me, I got so drunk, I wroke up somewhere and didn't know where I was.'
"Where's that?"
"At the park, in the middle of the night."
"How did you get home?"
"Called a friend."

The other one thought back to the one he went to and realized that that was the best party he's ever been to. Plus, he can remember it.

Please also read my post on giving,
thanks enjoy

what-are-you-giving

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On knowledge and emunah

2010-02-14T22:43:00.000-08:00

Wrote this awhile back and want to share it again

Here
Importance of both knowledge-and-emunah

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LETS PUT SOME JOY IN IT tip for parents and teachers

2010-02-10T22:48:00.000-08:00

On chinuch

Some times, if children are just told what to do but are not shown the beauty in it, then it could be hard to feel the joy of the mitzvos. My tip is that we should help children to enjoy practicing by showing them the beauty and joy, instead of just saying what to do. In order for them to continue it, they need to want to.

If the kid(like a teen) wants to do something that's not the best idea, explain to them why it's not such a good idea, instead of just no. And let them make small decisions, so they understand for themself. They might find you are right. -- They need both structure and space.

This family is a good example of bringing out the joy in Shabbos;
We don't need to do exactly the same(having so many guests) but we can take a lesson and incorporate the beauty of Shabbos in our lives
http://themachliscampaign.com/about2.php

Rikud - dance

2010-02-02T22:35:00.000-08:00

Now that's good wedding dancing entertainment in this vid below

HERE, ENJOY

What are you giving

2010-02-02T22:04:00.000-08:00

Adar and Purim is coming

There’s so many creative things that we can do with shalach monos. We can do a spring theme and make a cookie garden and send that out. Or do a music theme, or a sports and so on…. The possibilities are abundant.

The great thing about this is the message of giving to others. We have this message on Purim because this holiday is about coming together for a common goal (reversing haman’s decree)

There’s also another kind of giving that is so important nowadays, and that is the giving of time to others. Whether it is time with our spouse or with our children, it’s very important that we take a little time to be there with them. It can be just a short while, like during dinner time, or at night someone tucks the kids in. It doesn’t matter how long or short the time, the quality counts more than the quantity. Make this time enjoyable. For example, on shabbos, cherish the moment together. This might be easier with younger children, whereas teens might want to be with friends. This time spent, whether it’s the couple alone, or time with the kids, can make a big impact on both the couple and the children.

Btw, here's a story that I wrote for a previous Purim, enjoy :)

new-reality-show 'Bloggers

Might do a new story, IY'H

The STILL suggestion

2010-01-17T11:32:00.000-08:00

While listening to a lecture, the speaker mentioned something that many can relate to. Nowadays, we're so busy with business, the internet, cell phones etc. People don't have time to themselves anymore. And even when people do have free time, they need to do something interesting like listen to their Ipod. It's like we're afraid to be alone with our thoughts.

The speaker mentioned a suggestion called STILL. The first letter is silence, find 5 min to just sit and relax.
The second is to talk. You know how it is with all this technology, it has lessened the amount of talking we do face to face. While technology helps us to stay in touch with friends & family that we wouldn't have otherwise, we still need regular face to face conversations. Sometimes, we in general society, are so busy with other things that we don't spend enough quality time with family.

The 3rd is to take a few minutes to look inside our self and Introspect. The rush of daily life doesn't allow oneself to stop and think of how to improve and grow. Take a few minutes to relax and contemplate.

The forth is to laugh with others and all enjoy yourselves.

The fift is to laugh with yourself. For example, if you did something silly like left your umbrella at work.

Have a good week

Tikun

2010-01-17T00:07:00.000-08:00

Each of us can do so much to help the world we're in. It can be in a physical way like helping someone in some way, or being a good friend etc.
Or it can be spiritual like learning (for growth), Or us Jews lighting Shabbos candles before sun-down and other mitzvos, which brings positive spiritual energy.

We especially need to do all we can to help nowadays. - Every mitzvah helps, both between people like tzedaka or improving our character traits. And between person and G-d, like praying, keeping Shabbos and other mitzvos. What we do can make a difference and we can help to make a good impact

We should remember to keep looking towards the light down the road

2010-01-12T21:40:00.000-08:00

Naftali Abramson Gali li

A couple of things

2010-01-05T19:56:00.000-08:00

Firstly, I want to mention this book that many of us know, but it's a good reminder, plus very helpful. We can all probably relate to difficulty focusing when praying sometimes, or rushing through it without kavanah(meaning). Maybe this book can help Praying with Fire

On a side note, would also like to share this nice instrumental album,
Guitar Soulo
by Avi Singolda (Main), Yeedle (Producer)
Click here

Funny pics

2009-12-29T23:28:00.000-08:00

some interesting pics I found on the net

When Things Heat Up

2009-12-28T00:28:00.000-08:00

There's a lot of things going on nowadays. Some natural, like different things caused by weather and other things. Some things that are scary like a terror threat to some country. And some things that are upsetting, like a scandal.
In regards to scandals, people look at it in different ways and either lose hope or try to keep their hope alive.

Some say we are in the time during the birthpangs of Moshiach. While this may look like a cop out, that is not the purpose. It's not to throw off responsibility. People still need to improve the situation. But at least we understand that these challenges are happening at this time because as mentioned above. - Again, we still need to fix things.

We just try to keep our emunah up, otherwise it could crumble, G-d forbid. However, if we have faith there's a light down the road, then we keep going forward.

helping couples

2009-12-20T00:22:00.000-08:00

edited

Some tips I gathered over time about strenthening relationships

>For a relationship to work, each one should try to both give and work as a team, both doing their part. This sounds idealistic and doesn't always happen b/c sometimes one gives more than the other. However, both should try to do their best.

>Communication helps you know what you each need and want. If one of you holds it in, you might explode later. Better to let them know now how you feel. Sometimes, it's hard to express it, and it takes some practice. Also, if one wants a specific thing like a gift and is particular, let them know what, so they can give it. Otherwise they don't know, and might waste money when they could spend it wisely on something you like. Also, when communicating, be patient and understanding

>Appreciation is very important. When you show appreciation to each other, it enhances the relationship, and encourages you both to keep going.

By the way
great article on helping couples deal productively with financial hard times. Click here

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cool pic

2009-12-13T00:10:00.001-08:00

3D chalk art, nice how they make the frog pop out

more of these here

Light up the nights

2009-12-13T00:08:00.000-08:00

Happy Chanukah

Like the small group of Chamona'im(maccabees) defeated the huge Greek army, this shows us that anything is possible.

In the Chanuka story, there was a spiritual threat to us from the Greeks; Jews physically fought for what they believe in. Yes, some went astray, but some stuck to their heritage.

In the Purim story, there was a physical threat to us from Haman. The Jews fasted and prayed and did teshuva and survived.

Sometimes we need action, sometimes prayer. In general though, they are both important.

During those times

2009-12-13T00:05:00.000-08:00

Message inspired by a situation I read about

Sometimes things are very hard.

We feel discouraged

and wonder why this?

We don't know.

During those times,

our challenge is to hold on

and look towards

the light at the end of the tunnel.

Things might take time,

but with hope and faith,

the hardship i s alleviated,

at least a little.

When you overcome it,

you find yourself stronger than before.

It's very hard sometimes.

But we can do something

positive, and maybe help others

in the same boat.

Cute cartoon

2009-11-29T00:00:00.000-08:00

Saw this on the cool Jew site and wanted to share it.
It's so true, lol

music

2009-11-15T19:17:00.000-08:00

Shlomo Katz at a concert

Grand Cayon from plane

2009-11-01T12:50:00.000-08:00

While on a plane, I tried to take a couple pics of the Grand Canyon

The pics are not perfect but still nice

Here's some closer pics on google images of it click here

musical stairs

2009-10-14T01:41:00.000-07:00

The pink sun

2009-10-05T14:19:00.000-07:00

These are a couple of pics that I took as the sun was setting and looked very colorful. It actually looked darker in person.
I was thinking, I have to take a picture.

Importance of knowing why

2009-10-05T12:07:00.000-07:00

Many are taught what to do in regards to our tradition, and we know different information about it. - Sometimes we feel it inside, and other times we don't. What helps us to continue it is to know 'why', then we understand the importance of doing what we are taught. Here's the basics to help encourage us

First, lets look what happens with our actions and behaviors. We know our actions have an impact on the world. But besides having a physical impact, they also have a spiritual impact, in which we either bring down good or bad energy, depending on whether we do mitzvos or aveiros. It is our choice what we do. Everyone does both of them. We all have ups and downs. What people need to do is pause and think about what effect a certain action might have, whether the action is between person and person, or one between person and G-d. For example, giving to others what they need, and lighting Shabbat candles before sun-down, bring light and blessing. But gossiping Unnecessarily about So and so brings negative energy. There are times when we need to say something about someone, but there are rules how to do it. Each mitzvah teaches us something important.

Besides that, there's our neshama(soul). Our neshama needs food just like our body. Thus we have Torah and mitzvos. It's our source of nourishment and connects us to Hashem. Each bit of learning and practicing brings us closer to Him. Where as, aveiros pull us away. We might not feel inspired sometimes, and it might just feel like rituals. That's why it helps to learn the meaning of a mitzvah, and try to do the mitzvah with Joy. With continuous effort, personal prayer, and time, the feeling inside will grow. And if you need to, seek guidence from someone to help along the way. Remember, every effort counts. Sometimes, we have challenges in life. But these are to help us grow. Just like excersize can be hard but makes us strong, so too challenges in life make us stronger. This way we can receive more Divine light as Rabbi Arush teaches in "The Garden of Emunah"

Finally, we should remember that it is our obligation to uphold the laws, traditions, ethics and values that we Jews are meant to keep, ever since that everlasting promise at Mount Sinai, and therefore be the holy nation that we should be. It is for our benefit, the Torah and mitzvos, which Hashem(G-d) gave us to bring light to the world and nourish our soul and connect to G-d. Therefore we should do it with JOY

If you want more info you can ask and read here or ask someone in person

rhetorical questions

2009-09-30T14:26:00.000-07:00

Recently I had an exam in this class, psychology of marketing. At the end of the exam, there were a couple of questions that were not related to the exam. The teacher justed wanted to know our viewpoint.
They are the kind of thought provoking questions inwhich the answer is subjective.

The first one was, 'if an author writes on a certain page that this page is blank, is the page still blank or not?'

The second one was about how do you prove to yourself whether you are dreaming or awake?

These remind me of that rhetorical question that many have heard, "If a tree falls in the forest and no one is around, does it make a sound?'' To me, this is not a good example. If you think about it, the sound waves are still there, whether someone is there or not. It doesn't disappear because nobody is there to listen. That's my thought anyhow

shalom

making a difference

2009-09-27T00:00:00.000-07:00

There's going to be a basketball game here on Oct 20 involving the Los Angeles Clippers and the Maccabi Tel Aviv team.

The proceeds go to a youth villiage in Israel named Migdal Ohr which helps disadvantaged children; The organization was started by Rabbi Grossman who's from Jerusalem; Even without superpowers, it's truely amazing what one person can do, Baruch Hashem
Here's a video of the place there

having superpowers

2009-09-21T12:07:00.000-07:00

materialmaidel tagged me to do this meme about supowers.

Rule number 1: Read the rules.
Rule number 2: Write one superpower you would like to have and what you would do with it.
Rule number 3: Write why you chose that super power over everything else.
Rule number 4: Tag and link 7 people, and write why you think they will have an interesting meme.
Rule number 5: fix your broken links.

I was thinking of making my superpower be completing house work instantly. For ex, snap my fingers and the dishes are done, or the vacuum cleaning. However, I don't really mind doing house work. - A long time ago, it would take people all day just to make dinner. Now it's takes a short time.

What I would really like is to complete my college homework instantly. For example, if I have an essay or report to write, I just snap my fingers and the report is complete. Just need to print it out. That would be nice. Don't have to worry about writer's block and having it finished on time. I chose this over other super powers because this one really interests me. There are others that interest me as well, but I chose to write this one.

I tag

Staying afloat Because she's a sweet woman with a lot of strength BH

Floatingreflections Because I can imagine her being creative with this

Thinking out loud Because she's good with mashals

SerandEz because his would be really cool

Erachet I can imagine hers being sophisticated

I know that's only five, but some others I was thinking of were already tagged

shalom

shanah tovah

2009-09-16T12:00:00.000-07:00

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שנה טובה

Shana tovah everyone, have a great year

Here's one of my favorite songs from this singer's album

Ps, there's a pause in the beginning, but then continues

Sukkos in Israel

2009-09-09T21:40:00.000-07:00

My brother went to Israel in the spring and my sister went this summer; I have yet to go there. But hopefully someday

One thing that I would love to experience is Sukkos in Israel. I read an experience about someone who wrote that in Israel, you can feel the energy everywhere, the atmosphere is amazing. - We too feel it here when we walk around. But there, it's on a whole different level. I can only imagine what the simchas beis hashoeva(sukkah party) must be like. If you have any stories of your experience there, I would like to read it

One really good lesson about Sukkos is having guests come to our sukkah. The message is, lets come together, the door is open. This experience is especially fun for younger individuals who like to go to their friends sukkahs.
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Btw, I'm going on a break, but you can look at other things on here, there's plenty of topics

shalom
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Frozen at the station

2009-09-08T21:55:00.000-07:00

Funny video check it out

Foundation

2009-09-08T21:03:00.000-07:00

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Two trees
One of them had thin roots
and was easily impacted by
the wind.
The other one had a strong
foundation and stood strong.
The wind had very little impact.

In life, it is very important that we have a strong foundation. Some of us are given this and some are of us are not, sadly. However, we can try to build it up by seeking a supportive mentor to ask questions to, or receive advice. Or go about it ourself and find information to strengthen our emunah and connection.

When one doesn't have this strong base, then any "wind" that comes their way, for example, something upsetting, might make them fall. However, with a good foundation, the person stays up, even when there's a lot of 'wind', their basic knowledge and belief remains intact. This is why it's important for parents and teachers to give this to children.
In a recent article, someone mentioned that it's not enough that we have an external belief, inwhich we believe because that's how we're taught. We need to make it our own by thinking about it and comming to our own conclusion about the truth of Torah. And educators should accept questions and give answers in order to help strengthen emunah.

Lets keep striving to search, think, learn diff things and grow

here are some good links to help us with our spir growth

This site has many different topics to pick from
The Shmuz
And the forum where you can discuss things
Click here

Another site with many great topics
Naaleh
And their discussion forum
Click here

Looking inside

2009-09-03T00:00:00.000-07:00

The person sat and looked inside themself;
They weren't sure what to work on first,
So many things came to mind.

After some thinking though, they had some ideas.
Now comes the tricky part, applying it.
They decided to take it slow and do it gradually.

Discouragement might come along the way.

What counts though is to just make an effort
and continue on.