tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post8273928408812991990..comments2023-10-04T09:06:07.776-07:00Comments on A bit of Light קצת אור: pollsmbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-167696489106468502008-06-08T08:29:00.000-07:002008-06-08T08:29:00.000-07:00Well I used to take it more personally then I do n...Well I used to take it more personally then I do now but it depends on the person. Some people I really feel from long term experience are just looking for stuff because they don't like my views but others are doing it because they don't like my behavior and if somebody else did it they would also be upset. One thing that does bother me though is I feel many Rabbi's are very insensitive when it comes to not seeing this that MEN find hurtful and offensive and just feel they can say anything whether it is true or not. This post should talk about it in general if you are hurt by criticism not just to females. Anyway, I guess I have said enough.Adam K https://www.blogger.com/profile/02021938340159347269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-5624149699955053712008-02-13T23:19:00.000-08:002008-02-13T23:19:00.000-08:00Understandable. Good advice hurts sometimes. I've ...Understandable. Good advice hurts sometimes. I've been in that situation receiving it from others.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-11892695986876379842008-02-13T13:15:00.000-08:002008-02-13T13:15:00.000-08:00I am from the other side of the 'Mechitzeh' but i'...I am from the other side of the 'Mechitzeh' but i'll have my take too.<BR/><BR/>I don't take criticism well. When i am really convinced that it comes from a friends, it'll be easier, but still break me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-59819563598385087702008-02-13T10:13:00.000-08:002008-02-13T10:13:00.000-08:00I agree, it is very hardI agree, it is very hardsmbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-66060629892344774582008-02-13T07:15:00.000-08:002008-02-13T07:15:00.000-08:00I agree with what Bas Melech said. It's very hard ...I agree with what Bas Melech said. It's very hard to say "you're right" but usually, deep down you know if you're in the right or wrong. Lately I've been working on myself to just say "you're right, I should not have done that" when someone is upset about something I've done. If I argue, it can just go on and on but if you say you're right they just back off much faster. Tried and tested but so hard to do.halfsharedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08897983346646333294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-52954863698424325532008-02-12T11:44:00.000-08:002008-02-12T11:44:00.000-08:00BM, good point, it's easier to think about later o...BM, good point, it's easier to think about later on alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-90263832383985776762008-02-12T06:04:00.000-08:002008-02-12T06:04:00.000-08:00Feel hurt and defensive, and then take it after th...Feel hurt and defensive, and then take it after the other person backs off ;-)Bas~Melechhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01511197551248863790noreply@blogger.com