tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post116339179123477536..comments2023-10-04T09:06:07.776-07:00Comments on A bit of Light קצת אור: Oy horriblesmbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1164960251617516352006-12-01T00:04:00.000-08:002006-12-01T00:04:00.000-08:00lol :)lol :)smbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1164861548154393422006-11-29T20:39:00.000-08:002006-11-29T20:39:00.000-08:00I heard about the show but have never seen it.some...I heard about the show but have never seen it.<BR/>someone told me that they once went into the house (on the show) and the nannies were stumped, because there were tons of kids so well- organized and couldn't do it better.Batyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09402874037427009327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163988556616488832006-11-19T18:09:00.000-08:002006-11-19T18:09:00.000-08:00How true...How true...Parents must sometimes take ...How true...How true...<BR/>Parents must sometimes take a time out themselves..before stepping tinto a tense situation with kidsDavid_on_the_Lakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16755322374991538262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163963176274095992006-11-19T11:06:00.000-08:002006-11-19T11:06:00.000-08:00Sara, deffinatelyMoiy, excellent points. Positive...Sara, deffinately<BR/><BR/>Moiy, excellent points. Positive reinforcement like acknowledment and encouragement gives them an internal reward where as prizes gives them an external one. I think in some cases though, parents might have to start with a reward system first and then discontinue it later. But in other cases, they should just use positive reinforcement.<BR/><BR/>I also agree that changing the environment should be taken into consideration to help the children. And they should find out what needs to be changed and do it.smbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163915415772992212006-11-18T21:50:00.000-08:002006-11-18T21:50:00.000-08:00I think what happens the most with parents is that...I think what happens the most with parents is that they forget what it was like to be a kid. I hope when I'm a paretn I can remember just like I do now what it was like to be in their position.Sara with NO Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01144522318227673731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163794308077728372006-11-17T12:11:00.000-08:002006-11-17T12:11:00.000-08:00Good points Prag, I agree.Good points Prag, I agree.smbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163768807841811142006-11-17T05:06:00.000-08:002006-11-17T05:06:00.000-08:00In these shows the nanny always fixes whatever the...In these shows the nanny always fixes whatever the problem may be.<BR/>It's completely irrealistic and besides if you watch several episodes you'll notice that there's a pattern.<BR/>There's nothing real about this show, although it does give some good advice in general.Pragmaticianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08724757238921859366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163642580614184542006-11-15T18:03:00.000-08:002006-11-15T18:03:00.000-08:00Just would be nice to watch certain shows. Why i...Just would be nice to watch certain shows. Why is it overrated chaverah?socialworker/frustrated momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10352262399235382201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163631880494641982006-11-15T15:04:00.000-08:002006-11-15T15:04:00.000-08:00Barbara, yea unfortunatelyBeautiful, I also feel t...Barbara, yea unfortunately<BR/><BR/>Beautiful, I also feel that we should all take parenting classes. It would deffinatly help many familiessmbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163618451693857392006-11-15T11:20:00.000-08:002006-11-15T11:20:00.000-08:00the dysfunction in that home sounds all to familia...the dysfunction in that home sounds all to familiar to all of us.<BR/>I always thought taking pre wedding parenting classes should be considered as crucial as taking the well known kallah classes. <BR/><BR/>Theyre taught on how to be the best wifes in the world, but get married not having a clue on how to raise kids and end up having dysfunctional neglected homesbeautiful-strangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14586159330858128408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163599849908284932006-11-15T06:10:00.000-08:002006-11-15T06:10:00.000-08:00Sounds like a family structure that all to many of...Sounds like a family structure that all to many of us know, or have experienced.<BR/><BR/>Lack of communication is indeed worse than ignoring.BarbaraFromCaliforniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16154135502964236043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163552673003248822006-11-14T17:04:00.000-08:002006-11-14T17:04:00.000-08:00Don't like those kind of shows either. I agree tha...Don't like those kind of shows either. <BR/>I agree that it probably is easier for the nanny to discipline other children than her own.<BR/>This case was really bad. A little screaming from the parents is okay but not allll the time. They can accomplish the same thing and more effectively by telling them calmly yet firmly to do something, and give them an incentive so they'll do it.smbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163535022156902332006-11-14T12:10:00.000-08:002006-11-14T12:10:00.000-08:00social worker - its overrated.Lvnsm27 - I dont lik...social worker - its overrated.<BR/><BR/>Lvnsm27 - I dont like that show. It gives me a headache! Also to point out its much easier to dicipline other people's children then for a mother to her own child.chaverahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05093749688256362896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163520316965480822006-11-14T08:05:00.000-08:002006-11-14T08:05:00.000-08:00Social, must be hard, but you're better off not ha...Social, must be hard, but you're better off not having one :)<BR/><BR/>KM, yeah that's a good point. but at least she's helping them.smbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163485263892501292006-11-13T22:21:00.000-08:002006-11-13T22:21:00.000-08:00You know why the nanny has such a good job?(beside...You know why the nanny has such a good job?(besides for the prohibitive cost of her!)Because, it is SO much easier to find fault in other peoples families and marriages and to pinpoint it. I was thinking that I would love that job. I saw it on TV. She gets paid a LOAD and all she has to do is tell everyone what they are doing wrong (okay thats not ALL...but you get the idea)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163438606512007212006-11-13T09:23:00.000-08:002006-11-13T09:23:00.000-08:00I would love to watch reality shows like this show...I would love to watch reality shows like this show but I don't have a tv. I miss tv for shows like this. I agree with all of your points.socialworker/frustrated momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10352262399235382201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163436772769957862006-11-13T08:52:00.000-08:002006-11-13T08:52:00.000-08:00Worse than ignore, he didn't want them to talk to ...Worse than ignore, he didn't want them to talk to him.<BR/><BR/>I did visit, at the end of oct. though. I'll visit againsmbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14580971.post-1163435406903838822006-11-13T08:30:00.000-08:002006-11-13T08:30:00.000-08:00Interesting. I have never heard of that show but ...Interesting. I have never heard of that show but it sounds like an everyday American household to me. The only thing you said which I did not get was the thing about the father not listening to his children. Was he ignoring them? You still haven't visited my blog in a while.FrumWithQuestionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16669717584308348172noreply@blogger.com