In life, we can either let our experiences make us bitter, or we can channel that feeling towards being a good example in order to improve things.



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Sunday, July 26, 2009

technology

What do you think of all this technology? Personally, I like the fact that I can communicate with so many around the world through diff sites.
Do you think that technology has reached its peak or could there still be more discovered? I guess there could always be more. I was speaking with someone and she said, sure there's still new types of robots to build. Then we were talking about things like the Ipod getting smaller and smaller.
I guess technology is like songs, there's always more and more tunes.

what do you think

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Redeem us for Your Name's sake


We should each call out to Hashem to mercifully send the geula soon for His name's sake

Hashem is very patient, and is waiting for us to return to Him -
We hear the news and it feels like we have setbacks sometimes;
However, we can each try to do something positive, both individually and as a community; whether it's working on personal prayer, helping others in some way, learning how to improve ourselves, and so on. - Those of us who are trying all we can, you are doing a great job. Every effort counts. Lets keep it up.
Tehillim 121 says, "Where does my help come from? My help comes from Hashem" - Hold on, and may we be redeemed soon
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Ps. Besides doing our part, we should also realize that it is Hashem who decides what happens and when, and trust that it will come when the time is right. We do our part and He will do His at the right time.
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Thursday, July 16, 2009

Using time wisley

Some might have already heard this from others. But it's good to remember.

While listening to a certain lecture online, the speaker made a good point about why we count up during sefiras haomer and not down. I would have mentioned this message back then, but I only recently watched it. Anyway, he said that we count up and not down because when you count down, those days in between are in the way, and it feels like a long time until you reach that special day. However, during the omer, each day counts, and we are suppose to use each day as a chance to grow. We count up, taking one step, and then two steps and three. On the 48th day we are 48 steps closer toward Shavous.

It's like a student waiting to graduate. They can either count down the days until they're done with school, and feel anxious, and just want to fast forward to that day. Or they can take the opportunity to use this time wisely as they come closer to that day.
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Friday, July 10, 2009

Interesting elevator moment

I was on an elevator a long while at a shoping center and it was almost full. We went up a little and then the door opened. One guy said to the people outside, "You can try to come in if you want." Then a few people walked in and he said, "I was only kidding." The ones in the back started laughing. Then he said sorry to everyone. The elevator went up a little more and the door opened again. This time he says to them, "No!" And there was more laughter. Then a couple people said to them "Try it, try it." And they came in. Deffenately one of my more interesting elevator experiences

Thursday, July 09, 2009

lets accomplish

I think that just like a husband and wife need to communicate inorder to strenghten their marriage, so too we Jews of diff types should communicate calmly with eachother so we understand each other and can connect. I know this is difficult and not easy to accomplish. But it's something for people to think about. Another thing to help bring us together is to think of the good in people. For example, instead of thinking of something negative about someone, think of the chesed that someone does or some other nice thing. Again, it's difficult sometimes, but a neccessary step toward our goal. Plus, we should realize that eventhough we disagree, we can still respect eachother :)

Sunday, July 05, 2009

Virtual Touring

If you would like to go back to Israel or would like to go for the first time, you can take a virtual tour at this link below.
They have different itineraries of interest that you choose, and then you either look at the pictures or see a 360 view for some places, all which are amazingly gorgeous. There's also nice scenary videos.
Here we go
http://www.goisrael.com/vt/

6 TIPS

The 3 weeks is coming soon, starting on Thursday. I was recently looking at a certain website and it gave some great tips on what we can all work on. I'm writing this in my own words.

update, 7 tips

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Character traits - we can each look inside and think of something to work on and improve on about ourself. By working on this, we become better friends, parents, spouses, neighbors, etc. - I understand how some people feel when it seems like you're the only one doing something. But, I have to come realize that we still need to do it because it's the right thing to do, even if we feel alone in doing it.

Prayer - Learn the meaning of the words so it is more meaningful for you and you have more kavanah. Also, when you have a little time to yourself, either during the day or at night, make a personal prayer and say what is on your mind. This helps with strenghtening our connection to Hashem

Seek, keep searching for and learn Jewish info that will help you to build your knowledge. Then with that knowledge, we can improve our practice.

Emunah - This one is very hard for most of us. But it is important to work on.
- Just like parents who love their children, want what's best for them, so too Hashem wants what is best for us. - And just like children don't always understand their parents, we sometimes are bewildered at the situations that happen to us and wonder why they happen. However, we must understand that everything is for the best. There's this story I read in which this lady was going through a very hard time and she had to take off time from work to recuperate. During those weeks, she spent more time with her family. She writes that eventhough she went through what she did, she's in a better situation now because it helped her with her priorities. Plus, her children are happier with her being there.
Also, remember that if you're worried about something, work on trusting in Hashem that He'll help you through it

Love - This can be either hard or easy, depending on who we are around. Some people are easier to like and some are harder. However, we must remember that we Jews are a family. Eventhough we fight, we still deep down care about each other.

Joy - Do something with joy, whether it is when you light shabbos candles, or say a blessing on food and think about being glad to have it, or some other mitzvah. When you do it with joy, it becomes more meaningful and pleasureble.

Appreciate - Think about the things that you are grateful for. For example, being healthy, having friends, having shelter, nourishment, clothing, etc. I read an article in which someone suggested that couples should have a gratitued notebook. In it they should write what they appreciate about their spouse. By focusing on their love for each other, they strengthen their relationship.

Well I hope this is helpful, have a good week